Flavian Mwasi a seasoned writer who doubles as an entrepreneur, life coach, mentor, and author of: “Naked Quotes - A Collection of Selected Life Quotes”, “Self-Confidence Transformation”, and “WIRED For Success” shares this 7 Psychological trick on social media ,see below:
1.A smile works like magic in people's psychology, and sometimes, even people's lives. It neutralizes any ugliness you may have and portrays you as a friendly person. A smile can transform your physical appearance so dramatically and win admiration from people immediately. A beautiful person who smiles looks even more attractive. An average person who smiles looks more attractive than they really are, and more pleasant to look at.
2.Have a sense of humor without making a fool of yourself. Not everybody can be Mr. Bean, but everyone can crack jokes and make people laugh. If you can't, buy a joke book and cram some jokes which you can use on your friends. Practice it on people, and before you know it, you will begin to impact them. People get attracted to what they like.
3.Dressing well compliments any lack of outward beauty and portrays you as an intelligent person who knows how to take care of him/herself. Yes, people judge you by what you wear. Dressing well has the effect of boosting your self-esteem, self-confidence, and self-belief, which has an immediate impact on people around you. It compliments whatever qualities you may be lacking in terms of outward appearance and portrays you as someone who is more attractive than you really are. Why do you suppose girls would rather go out with a well dressed, not-so-good-looking man instead of a strikingly handsome guy who dresses like a bum?
4.As self-confident person comes out as an attractive person. Believing in yourself brings out the inner beauty in you, and makes people around you begin to like you automatically. A beautiful person who is ever serious puts other people off because people think they look unfriendly.
5.Psychologists agree that people wearing certain colors, look attractive to members of the opposite sex. For example, men are more likely to be attracted to women who are wearing anything of the color red and vice versa. Some psychologists believe that most women are attracted to men who wear nice shoes.
6.Subtly mimicking another person's behavior when talking to them, such as, copying their body language, gestures, and facial expressions, can make people like you and therefore, get attracted to them. This strategy is called mirroring. In 1999, researchers at New York University documented the "chameleon effect", which occurs when people unconsciously mimic each other's behavior. That mimicry facilitates liking and attractiveness.
7.Complimenting other people has such an automatic effect on them, that they feel indebted to reciprocate “the kindness”. People will identify your personality with the adjectives you use to describe other people. This phenomena is called spontaneous trait transmission. If you characterize someone else as genuine and kind, people will link you with those qualities. The opposite is also true—if you frequently criticize others behind their backs, your friends will begin to identify your negative characteristics with you. According to a study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, this effect was discovered even when people knew specific attributes didn't represent the people who had talked about them. "Whatever you say about other people affects how people see you," says Gretchen Rubin, author of the book, “The Happiness Project”.
