Here is the list of 7 Choices You Will Regret Forever :
1. You let others choose for you
The biggest challenge life offers you is to find out who you really are. And once you discover who you really are, you can’t help but be happy. To get there, your ability to stay in tune with your own dreams and desires plays a very important role. Do you have people in your life who disagree with you? That’s very good! This means that you have chosen a set of values and principles that you follow.
There are times when others will think what you are doing is silly, boring or pointless, but when you find yourself losing track of time being totally into what you are doing, then you know for sure that what you are doing is right.
2. You try to plan absolutely everything
Sometimes it’s better to relax and let life happen without worrying and try to plan every step you take. Take a few deep breaths and when things settle down and you can see the big picture again, only then take the next step. You don’t have to know which direction you’re going every time to get somewhere nice. Realize that everything in life is set up just right. You just have to let some time pass before it all makes sense.
3. You think you have too much time
The problem is that you always feel like you have more time than you think. But there may come a day when you realize you don’t have much time to do the things you’ve always wanted to do. When you get to that point, you’ll either have a list of goals you set and achieved, or a list full of excuses, things that depended solely on your effort and determination.
4. You pretend to be someone else to impress others
If you make a habit of not being yourself when you go out into the world, there may come a day when you don’t recognize yourself. When you spend a lot of time focusing on how you are perceived by others or how they want you to be, you risk eventually forgetting who you really are.
So avoid being afraid of what others think of you. The most important thing is to know who you are and what is really important to you. No one said you have to be perfect to impress or inspire others. Let them be inspired and impressed by how you deal with the imperfections you face.
5. You don’t want to change or grow
If you want to know if you have made good decisions in the past, carefully observe the present moment you are in. If you want to influence the future, carefully observe the decisions you make now. If you want to make room for change in your life, it’s important to let go of what was. What was is stale, gone and not coming back. The moment you realize this, you can take the necessary steps so that you put yourself in a position that helps you and gives you new perspectives instead of returning to the same old patterns.
6. You have people around you who drag you down
Avoid letting people with a negative attitude drag you down. Avoid letting them get to you. If you don’t allow them, they won’t be able to harm you. When you remember that you can choose whether or not you want to be around such people, instead of seeing it as an obligation you better walk away and leave them alone. I don’t think you have to stay around such people, if you can’t help them, you might as well leave.
7. You treat things superficially
The fact that you are now in this world you have a duty to give the world your best. Avoid daydreaming, get to work, make a concrete plan and act. Take responsibility for how you feel and how you choose to interpret what is happening around you. You are here and you are needed. It’s too late to sit and wait for someone else to do something at some point. That moment is now. That someone the world needs is you.
