It’s great if your relationship is harmonious and positive. However, sometimes you might mistakenly feel that it is a good thing while something is wrong with it. Unfortunately, they often upset our habits or force our partners to leave.
1 Always criticizing yourself
All too often, we end up criticizing ourselves, not even thinking that our flaws are only visible to us. Your partner may not even notice them or notice them the way you do. If you constantly talk about your flaws, you may eventually persuade your partner to believe the same.
2.Being judgmental to everyone around you
When a partner in a relationship is always upset, sooner or later it will change the flow of the relationship. Of course, you can find negativity and positivity in literally everything around you, but hearing someone’s whine all the time can be upsetting.
3 Being the perfect spouse
Trying to be perfect for your partner is a trap because sooner or later, you and your partner will tire of it. When you show your good side all the time, resentment can build up within you, leading to unforeseen circumstances. Keep in mind that self-sufficient people are not afraid to express their negative feelings.
4 Relying solely on your own opinion
Usually, people who have been single for a long time are the ones who have this habit. This is because they are not used to having someone who has an opinion of their own about family, relationships, and life in general. To keep the relationship in balance, both partners must listen to each other and find the golden mean between their opinion and that of their partner.
5 Looking for lies and tricks around every corner
Excessive suspicion can cause your partner to feel tired and angry because they may feel that you do not trust them. If the trust isn’t there, your partner will feel like they’re always being watched. It’s hard to live your life when someone always accuses you of deception.
6 Spending more than you can afford
Inept money handling whether over-spending or excessive greed is likely to cause conflict in any relationship sooner or later. Partners must agree on how they will handle their finances from the start and follow through on their agreement.
7 Always having to control everything
You cannot control everything no matter how hard you try. Our life is unpredictable and wonderful! Your constant attempts to control your other half show that you do not trust your life, surroundings, or yourself.
8 Comparing your partner all the time
This habit indicates that the person lacks self-confidence – they keep waiting for you to tell them that everything they have is better. Sooner or later, your partner will get tired of such a situation. Instead of comparing yourself to others, it is better to pay attention to your life and stop evaluating others.
9. Giving hints instead of saying things directly
10 Recalling all past mistakes
If your relationship is based on cues, this means that you or your partner cannot express your thoughts and desires publicly. This is because saying something directly means that you must take full responsibility for your words. If you do, don’t expect your partner to always understand what you get.
When you keep tracking and counting faults in your relationship, it only leads to new conflicts. These problems need to be solved in time and there rather than kept in bottles for years.
